2009 rubbles of life
2009…boy…what a year it has been. It was filled with all kinds of emotions that at times…the only way I could handle it was too just let fate takes its course….and it did, in more ways than one.
2009 was a year of realisation. There were many such incident which brought me back to reality.
1. Realisation 1 – Death comes without us knowing. Be kind to everyone coz you won’t know what happens tomorrow.
2. Realisation 2 – The world does not revolve around me. There are other things that matters. Sometimes this things may seem trivial but it affects our lives in ways that you can’t imagine.
3. Realisation 3 – In my quest to find material happiness, I pushed aside what matters to me most…my partner…my family…almost losing it all. Take time…make time to be with those that matters because you matter to them just like they matter to you.
4. Realisation 4 – Faith….have faith, coz somehow….faith will be entwine in your life no matter how you try to push it aside. Have faith…coz faith, will set you free.
5. Realisation 5 – Love is not easy. Love is about compromising, understanding and accepting the other person for who they are. Love is also about compromising, understanding and accepting who YOU are.
There were many times when I had conversations with myself on this realisation and I came to a conclusion that…we are who we make ourselves to be….and we CAN be a better person if we really want to.
